I am prefacing this with the fact that I like children. Most of the time they are cute and quite amusing. But, I do have to say that I really think a child that is old enough to walk and to talk to people should have at least a basic teaching of manners.
I say this because I was assaulted by a young child in JoAnn's today. Now, the child was nice, but really, really overly friendly. I was in the middle of a conversation with a sales associate when this child comes over to show me this toy cow he had. (I have never had an encounter with this child nor even made eye contact. I apparantly have the "come hither and play with me" look for small children). So, in the middle of my conversation, this child shoves himself in between us and shoves the toy into my chest and starts chanting "a cow, look at the cow!".
I was a bit bewildered that the fact that this child who was a complete stranger to me was completely "up in my face". I just nodded at the child and went about the conversation with the sales lady.
Now, the mother was standing right there and all she said to the child was, "Hun, she's talking to someone right now". There was no pulling the child away from me. No appologizing to me. There wasn't even a discussion, "don't interrupt adults while they are talking" or "don't talk to strangers".
I ended up turning and walking away with the sales associate to try to find the item I was looking for. It was just a very odd experience. I'm used to small children talking to me or showing me things but not quite as demanding and physical as this child was.
I'm fairly patient with children so I was OK. But not everyone would be. Not everyone likes children, especially when they are acting in that way and with that much physical contact. You might have someone who will yell at the child or will push them away. Or worse, in this day and age, it's not the best to have your child be overly friendly with people who are complete strangers.
Anyways...I thought I'd share.